Client Stories
Elias has assisted hundreds of men and helped them access a version of themselves that is beyond their imagination. These stories convey the success of his programs.
1. Casino Roy-ale - Male, 45 years, Gambling
Awaiting in the emergency room of my fathers visit to the hospital due to covid sickness, I overheard a man sobbing about having a near death experience. I couldn’t help but go to his side and listen to his story. Riddled with a chain of very complex issues stemming from gambling, then drug addiction and being abandoned by his wife and 6 year-old daughter.
I felt compelled to intervene and make some changes as the pain he was suffering could be alleviated and was too much for me to let it happen. That night I created an environment for him to confide in me and from 8 pm until 12.30am he laid it out, truth and all. That night we unofficially began what I now call my 12-week mentor-ship program and as the weeks passed, I saw massive changes from initial resistance to acceptance of new mental frameworks and beliefs that have stood the testament of time and until this day, almost 6 years later he calls me his saving grace.
2. Not worth living - Male, 25, Suicidal
Driving home from work and I get a call around 11pm, the context of the call began as usual about work and life in general until an awkward silence filled with the tension. I broke this tension with “its ok, I’m listening”. A further few seconds of silence felt like hours and as I was driving I had this feeling that something was not right. He proceeded with the following words that to this day are etched in my mind “I don’t want to be here anymore.”
This one sentence held so much gravity to me that I had to stop my car and my full attention was with him to help him move forward from this debilitating mindset. This one conversation initiated a 1 year long consultation program that saw him not only get back to a stable life but far exceed his expectations of what he thought was imaginable in his wildest dreams.
3. Uncertain future – Male, 19, Depression
Following a successful client transformation his friend was told about me and after signing him up to the program, further deep challenges arose in the early weeks. One of them was the dealing with the uncertain future of his terminally ill father, and he was the only child. The pressure of filling the void his father would leave and the irreplaceable legacy we would need to live up-to became too much for him to bare alone. Knowing he had to be the rock for his mother the pressure built as he didn’t have an outlet to process and reflect on what he could control – both parents were relying on him to be strong.
After completing the 12-week mentor-ship program he had the tools and mindset to deal with the passing of his father and create a healthy and sustainable environment for his mother and himself. The life-long principles he adopted will forever enable him to progress to have his own family and be the example he once looked up to in his father.
4. Money! money! money! – Male, 56, CEO
An incoming call from an international number appears on my phone and my first thought was scammer. I answer and a well-spoken man from Chicago, Illinois asks for my name. I was both confused and curious. He then explained that I was recommended to him by his relative here in Sydney. Being a successful man who was earning 8 figures a year, there was no growth in his company and over the course of 12-week mentor-ship program the walls of limitation dissolved to allow him to grasp the concepts to breakthrough and earn a 20% increase in his annual income.
Although this didn’t occur in the 12 week period, an essential roadblock was cleared and this allowed for the right actions to take place and constitute a very desirable outcome.I stand by my philosophy of not telling you what to do but what needs to be done to get where you want to be.
5. A string of losses – Male, 49, Family misfortune
Life is unexpected and we’ve all had a stage in our lives where a chain of tragic events takes place and we begin to feel destined to being a victim for life. I had this situation arise with a client where 4 of his family members passed, businesses failed and his health was deteriorating over a one year period. He accepted defeat daily and was constantly in a state of anxiety and shame. His diet and unhealthy habits of drinking and chain-smoking resulted in him gaining so much weight he couldn’t sleep properly – severely affecting his cardiovascular health.
With the risk of a heart attack only around the corner he reached out for support. Doing the 12-week mentor-ship program he was met with a lot of resistance to conform and at times he was ready to throw in the towel multiple times. Luckily the constant support I gave him was taken on board and through a strong relationship of trust and consistency – he conquered his mountain of challenges. I still get phone calls randomly where we laugh about the stories we overcame together during this difficult time in his life.